Coach LA has a conversation with author Jameel (Vacado) Williams in episode 7, Let's Talk About SEX! Part 2 of the "A man is not a plan" series! She ventures into an in-depth dialogue about identifying your needs/ wants, and non-negotiables in your relationships. Does sex "good sex" in your relationship matter? Where does it fall in terms of your list of needs, wants, and non-negotiables? Why do some people fake orgasms? Are we still faking the big “O” in 2022? Coach LA will have a conversation with Jameel and these hot topics and more. Jameel will discuss his new book and what inspired Fantasies of Passion, 13 Exotic short stories. Coach LA shares ideas and encourages her listeners to own/embrace our sexuality by advocating for our needs in 2022. Although there is a focus on feminine energy in the episode, she discusses how masculine energy can be helpful too to get our needs met as well. Conversations with Coach LA (Radio Talk Show) follow, join the conversation, and turn on those notifications!! UrbanHeat981FM Check out the author's books at https://Casualbusinessmoves.com
Anorgasmia is delayed, infrequent or absent orgasms — or significantly less-intense orgasms — after sexual arousal and adequate sexual stimulation. Women who have problems with orgasms and who feel significant distress about those problems may be diagnosed with anorgasmia.Apr 30, 2022
Source: Anorgasmia in women - Symptoms and causes - Mayo Clinic
5-10% of women have never orgasmed [though many of these women may later in life.] [5]
The Case of the Female Orgasm: Bias in the Science of Evolution
According to one study, 12% of women aged 17-28 have never had an orgasm.
Who’s Pretending – Fake Orgasm Statistics
59% of women have faked an orgasm. [12]
25% of men have faked an orgasm. [13]
67% of women who had ever faked an orgasm no longer fake them. [12]
Study of over 1000 English-speaking women 18-94 published 2019
Women who continued to fake orgasms were more likely to indicate embarrassment talking about sex with their partner in explicit ways and were less likely to agree that they and their partner are able to talk specifically about what makes sex more pleasurable for them. More than half (55.4%) of women reported they had wanted to communicate with a partner regarding sex but decided not to; the most common reasons were not wanting to hurt a partner’s feelings (42.4%), not feeling comfortable going into detail (40.2%), and embarrassment (37.7%).
Greater self-reported sexual satisfaction was associated with more comfortable sexual communication. Study findings and implications for professionals are discussed in the context of adult sexual development and learning. This includes growing more comfortable talking with a partner about sexual preferences and sexual pleasure.
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-019-01493-0
Journal of SEX research
Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm
Charlene L. Muehlenhard & Sheena K. Shippee
Pages 552-567 | Published online: 25 Aug 2009
Frequently reported reasons were that orgasm was unlikely, they wanted sex to end, and they wanted to avoid negative consequences (e.g., hurting their partner's feelings) and to obtain positive consequences (e.g., pleasing their partner). Results suggest a sexual script in which women should orgasm before men, and men are responsible for women's orgasms. Charlene L. Muehlenhard & Sheena K. Shippee (2010) Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm, The Journal of Sex Research, 47:6, 552-567, DOI: 10.1080/00224490903171794
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224490903171794
Sexual Fantasies and Orgasm
20% of women have orgasmed just thinking about their favorite fantasy.
The same is true for 10% of men.
Source Justin J. Lehmiller
Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life
Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller (Ph.D., Purdue University) is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. He is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. Dr. Lehmiller is also a prolific researcher and scholar, having published more than 40 pieces of academic writing to date, including articles in some of the leading journals on sex and relationships, as well as two textbooks.