What happens when the therapist gets on the couch? On this episode of Conversations with Coach LA, licensed psychotherapist Coach LA (Lakisha R. Austin, LICSW, MSW, MBA) sits down with Alphonso Nathan, MS, LPC — better known as Phonz the Therapist — for an unfiltered Therapist Spotlight conversation about therapy, Black mental health, culture, vulnerability, and breaking the stigma surrounding mental health care. Phonz is a licensed therapist, speaker, author, futurist, and mental health advocate who uses therapy, humor, media, and culturally relevant conversations to make mental wellness more accessible—particularly within Black and Brown communities. But this conversation goes beyond credentials. Therapists are human, too. Coach LA and Phonz pull back the curtain on what it means to be the person helping others heal while navigating your own emotions, relationships, boundaries, stress, and personal growth. Together, they explore: 🛋️ What does therapy really mean? 🧠 Why mental health stigma continues to impact Black and Brown communities ✊🏾 Black men, vulnerability, emotional wellness, and asking for help 💭 Mental health stigma vs. legitimate mistrust of systems ❤️ Why culturally responsive therapy and representation matter 👀 The reality that therapists need therapy too 📱 Social media, mental health influencers, and self-diagnosis 🤖 AI and the future of therapy and mental health care 🔥 What graduate school can’t teach you about being a therapist 🎯 Phonz’s personal BET on SELF™ journey And Coach LA asks the question at the heart of the Therapist Spotlight series: “Who is Alphonso Nathan when Phonz the Therapist clocks out?” This episode is for anyone who has ever considered therapy, questioned whether therapy is for them, struggled to find a therapist who understands their culture, or wondered what happens emotionally on the other side of the therapist’s couch. Whether you’re a therapist, social worker, counselor, mental health professional—or simply somebody doing your own healing work—this conversation is a reminder that seeking support is not a weakness. Healing is human. About the Guest Alphonso Nathan, MS, LPC (Phonz the Therapist) is a licensed therapist, speaker, author, futurist, and mental health advocate based in the Philadelphia area. His work centers on breaking mental health stigma, promoting self-care, creating safe spaces for healing, and making conversations about mental wellness accessible, relatable, and empowering. Follow Phonz: Instagram: @phonzthetherapist TikTok: @PhonzTheTherapist
What happens when the therapist gets on the couch?
On this episode of Conversations with Coach LA, licensed psychotherapist Coach LA (Lakisha R. Austin, LICSW, MSW, MBA) sits down with Alphonso Nathan, MS, LPC — better known as Phonz the Therapist — for an unfiltered Therapist Spotlight conversation about therapy, Black mental health, culture, vulnerability, and breaking the stigma surrounding mental health care.
Phonz is a licensed therapist, speaker, author, futurist, and mental health advocate who uses therapy, humor, media, and culturally relevant conversations to make mental wellness more accessible—particularly within Black and Brown communities.
But this conversation goes beyond credentials.
Therapists are human, too.
Coach LA and Phonz pull back the curtain on what it means to be the person helping others heal while navigating your own emotions, relationships, boundaries, stress, and personal growth.
Together, they explore:
🛋️ What does therapy really mean?
🧠 Why mental health stigma continues to impact Black and Brown communities
✊🏾 Black men, vulnerability, emotional wellness, and asking for help
💭 Mental health stigma vs. legitimate mistrust of systems
❤️ Why culturally responsive therapy and representation matter
👀 The reality that therapists need therapy too
📱 Social media, mental health influencers, and self-diagnosis
🤖 AI and the future of therapy and mental health care
🔥 What graduate school can’t teach you about being a therapist
🎯 Phonz’s personal BET on SELF™ journey
And Coach LA asks the question at the heart of the Therapist Spotlight series:
“Who is Alphonso Nathan when Phonz the Therapist clocks out?”
This episode is for anyone who has ever considered therapy, questioned whether therapy is for them, struggled to find a therapist who understands their culture, or wondered what happens emotionally on the other side of the therapist’s couch.
Whether you’re a therapist, social worker, counselor, mental health professional—or simply somebody doing your own healing work—this conversation is a reminder that seeking support is not a weakness. Healing is human.
Alphonso Nathan, MS, LPC (Phonz the Therapist) is a licensed therapist, speaker, author, futurist, and mental health advocate based in the Philadelphia area. His work centers on breaking mental health stigma, promoting self-care, creating safe spaces for healing, and making conversations about mental wellness accessible, relatable, and empowering.
Follow Phonz:
Instagram: @phonzthetherapist
TikTok: @PhonzTheTherapist
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